I think that marriage is a journey, that it shouldn't be complete at its onset. It would soon lose its flavor and excitement. It would lose its incompleteness which is essential, I feel, in giving us the sense of need to continue to progress and not get overly comfortable.
You know how it's said that anything that doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Well, the more incompleteness and need for change in two people who have committed to being with each other, in my books, is an opportunity to have a worthwhile journey, if they will stay true to each other and not give up when times get tough.
Sweetie, I'm happy that we're complete in being incomplete. In my mind, I've married you already and I see years ahead of us. I enjoy the thought of continuing this journey of discovering and experiencing you. Being incomplete myself, and knowing that you feel incomplete too, makes our relationship with each other a meaningful journey.
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